Project Home

is about to start for real! :) I'm soooo excited! Now that we've finalized our interior decoration drawings (thanks to Attorney's cousin, who did it for us for free as a wedding gift!), we're now ready to get the place jobbed-out to a contractor! Yehey! Now I feel like we're actually starting on Project Home already :P

Hopefully, though, it doesn't cost us too much. Within our budget is okay with me; I'm not even shooting for savings. I know that I can't scrimp in areas that need to be spent on (like the kitchen and the toilets), so I'm not going to penny-pinch like I would if we were referring to certain parts of our wedding. I know that it's an investment. I just want to stay within budget so we'll still be able to pay for some other planned items (hint: HM!) Let's keep our fingers and toes crossed! :)

confeeeeermed!

Got confirmed yesterday at Binondo Church. It was an interesting experience, though the seminar was seriously sleep-inducing. I successfully executed my part in the ceremony and even got a gift from my confirmation godparents! :) Hehehe. While it's true that I only did it as a requirement for our church wedding, I must admit I liked the solemnity of the ceremony,and the meaning of the whole thing wasn't lost of me at all, even if I'm not truly part of the faith. After all, I studied it in college. I even remember getting a flat 1.0 in the Sacraments class :)

Dennis was also sweet enough to accompany me through the whole thing, even sitting through a 2.5 hour seminar. He said he wanted to be there with me, even if the task at hand didn't involve him. Guess it's an exercise in marriage too. As my dad says, you don't always like what you do for your spouse, but you just do it :p

ohm.... namaste.... yoga...

OK, I was so tempted to blog about my yoga sessions after, well, the first time I went to yoga class in LKG. But I stopped myself, because I feared it meant I'll jinx this new fitness routine and I'll end up eating my words and doing "ningas kugon" (i.e. never go back after the 1st try). So now that I'm on my second month of doing yoga, I figured it's safe already to formally talk about it (at least as "formal" as this blog goes :p )

First off, I SUPER DUPER love yoga! Because:
1. It's sooo relaxing. It eases your mind of worries or stress and never fails to recharge me after each session. No fail! Since it has a lot to do with proper inhalation, requires tremendous concentration, demands focus on the here and now, and expects you to leave your troubles at the door. It's so calming and has such a nice de-stressing effect on me.
2. It helps my posture. Enough said.
3. It's making me stronger. I don't know if this is just a trick of my own mind's making, but I do feel incrementally stronger since I started doing this kind of yoga. I don't get out of breath as easily or as fast when Guia and I walk to Greenbelt. I can also take the stairs at the office and at home two steps at a time, all in one go (no more than 1 second interval between each two-step). I don't know when I can expect toning of the limbs to happen, but I think the increased strength is such an encouraging result.
4. It's strenuous enough yet it doesn't make you sweat like a pig or get "hingal" in a what-the-F kind of way. Admittedly, these are the main reasons I didn't like the gym. I didn't like how I felt so spent after each time I go. With yoga, I still get those "muscle aches" post-session, but nothing like those I get from going to the gym. So I still feel the workout's impact minus the icky sweating :p
5. There's variation in the yoga poses each time I go, so it never gets boring.
6. It's something I can easily replicate at home, maybe starting my 4th month of doing yoga. I need to get the poses down right first before attempting to do it at home, lest I injure myself. But once I get to do that, I can do yoga in the comforts of my own room. Which obviously, no gym routine can allow.
7. No need for special shoes, clothes or other paraphernalia. Apart from the studio fees, there are no required additional expenses!
8. The center is so near my office (at least for now.. I hear they're planning to move to Rockwell in Sept. Boohoo!). There is no excuse for me to skip my Wed-Fri twice-a-week routine.

Are those reasons enough? Hehe. I'm so happy that, after 27 years of existence, I've finally found an exercise routine I love. In fact, I super look forward to each session, in a way I never ever expected to feel about a physical activity. I never looked forward to gym or to PE. Ever! So this is definitely a good sign. I really love yoga!

HM Planning!!

The past few weeks, I've been jumping from one type of planning to another. First was wedding day planning, especially when I meet up with my wedding planner, then off to condo renovation and interior decoration planning, especially when we got our keys and signed all the documents, then to honeymoon planning, especially when I found a super great deal online for our Honeymoon Phase 1 in Singapore! :)

Anyway, this blog post is about the latter kind of planning. I'm so excited it's actually a bit painful to have to wait sooo long for it (7 more months!). After finding a super great deal on Cebu Pac last Christmas for our tickets to Sing (super cheap- as in, cheaper than a dress in Zara!), I went on a mission to find us the perfect hotel. Given that it's our honeymoon and that we're leaving 48 hours after we tie the knot, I wanted to splurge a bit on the hotel and not book us in a 30-sqm box. If I let budget be the only consideration, chances are, we'll end up in a shoebox-lookalike, given how expensive Singapore is on an average day, further compounded by the fact that September is F1 Race season there too. On the other hand, to sort of temper this desire to go all-out, I wanted to not spend too much on Phase 1, so that we'll have more money for Phase 2 (more on that later). So I surfed the internet more than I care to admit, until tadaaaaa I found the perfect deal!

We are staying here for HM Phase 1:

Conrad Hotels Singapore, a Hilton hotel

Got our room at 50% off in their winter sale last month!! How cool is that? :)

Then tonight, I made another discovery. Assuming we do get to go to NYC for our Honeymoon Phase 2, I really really really hope we get to stay in this hotel:

Room-Mate Hotel Grace NYC

I just love love love this hotel! Not only is the concept different, it looks really fun, the location is perfection, and there is, brace yourself, free breakfast! I thought that was an impossibility in NYC, at least not unless you're staying at a 5-star place. It's also got a nice pool, lounge area, lobby and entrance hall. Service doesn't seem to be a problem either! :) It's not cheap, mind you, as very few things are in the concrete jungle where dreams are made. But it's cheap enough, relatively speaking, especially if you factor in the location, which is the biggest consideration if you want to maximize your time in the city. :)

OK, I should stop sounding like a tour guide. Please please please please!!!!! :) I pray the stars align to give me this one special gift-- I hope we have enough money to responsibly go to NYC, then I hope we find cheap airfare (I have an idea what airline to take, but let's hope it pulls through for us!), then we BOTH get our US visas renewed (this may be the most unpredictable one of all the factors), and finally we get to take leaves off from work to go (this may be the easiest factor naman). Hehehe. I really really hope so. I really want NYC. Cross your fingers and toes we get there in 2010! :)

last call!

This weekend marked my last Valentine's day as a single person and my last CNY at home. Made me more wistful than I expected. Guess this just means we truly must enjoy every minute of every day and cast aside all worries about tomorrow or hang-ups about the past. Just enjoy the present. Because, just like with everything else in life, it's fleeting and it'll be gone before you know it.

Kung Hei! :)

it's REALLY happening!!!!

We got the keys to our condo unit today! Hoooooorayyyyy!!! I'm so excited and giddy, yet nervous all at the same time. Hehe. It's really happening! Once we finalize our renovation plans, the contractors can start work, in time for hopefully a finished place by June, and we can start slowly adding furniture to the place, in time for September!

To say I'm excited is an understatement :p

couch, come to mama!!!!!

Cobonpue: Highlight of Cebu

OK, so I'm back from Cebu, for a sales conference for SMART. It was a 3 day, 2 night trip, and we stayed in Mactan Shang. All I can say is that the hotel is nothing like Makati Shang but for a free 2-night stay in a 5-star hotel, I wouldn't really complain too much.

The highlight of this trip though was visiting the factory and showroom of Kenneth Cobonpue in Mandaue City. It was my boss' idea, actually, to go furniture hunting / shopping on our last day in Cebu, since we pretty much had the whole day (up until about 1:30pm) free and what else could we do that didn't involve too much cost. When she mentioned going to Kenneth Cobonpue, I immediately thought that his stuff probably cost an arm and a leg and for sure I wouldn't be able to afford anything. I had heard of his work and his legions of fans, though, and was actually curious to see his stuff up close and personal. They always struck me as "hard"-looking, like they weren't comfortable to sit on or lie down on, so I wanted to see what the big fuss was about.

After a 30-minute car ride from the hotel, we arrive at the showroom and were greeted rather enthusiastically by his staff of showroom girls who were really friendly and accommodating. We went through both sides of his showroom and I'm happy to report that I was so pleasantly surprised to see how usable his pieces are. Not only are they "impactful" visually, especially the bed and sofa pieces, they are also designed for human comfort. His furniture are all MASARAP to lie down or sit on. MASARAP na MASARAP.

When we were going through the first part of the showroom, I was thinking, wow, I'm actually impressed by his work! But I wasn't seeing anything particularly breath-taking or at least merited a feeling of wanting to take anything home with me.

Until we went to the showroom at the back and I saw THE COUCH. The couch that I would die to have in my condo when we move in in September. It's called the Yin Yang L-shaped couch, and it's HEAVENLY. Not only aesthetically pleasing but also remarkably wonderful. Like I want to sit there all day and maybe sleep on it at night. Hehe.

Alas, apparently, they do not sell the pieces in the showroom. Also, if you want to buy something, upon agreeing to the price quotation (which apparently is only released to you via email and on a per-request basis because the price of his raw materials are organic and thus their prices change from time to time), they will make your furniture piece from scratch. The leadtime is usually 60 days, and they ship to Manila. If you want some aspects or dimensions changed, this means your piece will be "customized". It will be subject to a round of special designing by Kenneth and you will of course be charged a corresponding customization fee. The girls actually didn't recommend customization. If you just want a couch lengthened because you find it a bit short for your fiance's leg length, then you're better off adding an ottoman to your purchase and save yourself a bundle of pesos.

Hehe. That last bit was my only predicament with THE COUCH , which the salesgirl was able to successfully address.

So now we gotta wait. How much will THE COUCH cost kaya? The other pieces there had quotations made out for today, so we had an idea on his price range. I'll tell you one thing about his prices- they are NOT cheap, but they are certainly NOT chump change either. If you consider the amount of labor that goes into the actual materials and the furniture, which we were able to see for ourselves, you'll realize why the prices are the way they are. In fact, you'd even think of charging more if you were Kenneth.

That last bit were my actual real thoughts as our car pulled away from the showroom's garage as we left for the hotel again. Hehe.

For more info on his work, you can check his website. THE COUCH isn't in the catalog for some reason. I kinda like it actually- the thought that it's not published in the site yet, and hence it's still my (or our, including my companions today) little secret for now.

:)

officially a homeowner!!

We got a copy of our condo certificate of title today! WOOHOO!! :p

The feeling is a mixture of a really powerful emotional high and a really freaky sense of anxiety with a helping of queasiness in your stomach that can easily trigger cold sweats. Hahaha! Did I just make it sound so weird? Anyway, the feeling is really a combination of "yehey, we're on our way to realizing our dream" and "what the.. how will we do this successfully?" especially since the place is really still on loan with the bank. While we do have a payment plan, the ultra-responsible and ultra-"praning" side of me can't help but feel the weight of the math computations on the flimsy piece of paper in front of me. What pressure. So this is what "game time" means for adults. Not just simple transactions like shopping or beautification routines that, when charged to credit cards, tend to "surprise" you at the end of the month. This is a true-blue, honest-to-goodness jumping into real-estate-mortgage territory, with serious consequences and pretty much just you and your husband left to your own devices. It's quite scary!

But, as my dad said, it's okay to have that "my heart is throbbing so fast I feel like I'm getting cardiac arrest" feeling. It means you're growing up. It means you're stretching yourself farther and reaching for a dream, intending to make it real. It means you've stopped daydreaming and started pushing the pedal to the metal (oh yeah, my favorite, cough cough, phrase)... and start living your life.

Nice to hear, and probably better savored when the debt is all paid for, but I know it's true. I guess it's also the responsibility of it all that would make it feel so much more worth-it and fulfilling in the end. Just like with anything else in life, the feeling you get after getting something you worked for is so much richer, so much more heart-warming and so much more meaningful than something you got through a dole-out. Not to say that dole-outs aren't good; in fact they are VERY VERY VERY much welcome. All I'm saying if part of enjoying the gain, more often than not, entails going through some pain.

Starting with.. no unnecessarily shopping starting today. I made some progress in January, it being the leanest month (spending-wise) for me, since probably my first few months of working. I just hope I keep it up. Hehe. I have a feeling I will be able to, though. Nothing takes the wind out of your clothes-shopping urges than a mortgage staring at you squarely in the face.

Let's not forget to celebrate too, though. We're officially homeowners! Hoorah! A feat by itself :)

House Stuff Hunting Day

So we went house stuff hunting today, before we went and watched The Blind Side. I loved loved loved loved it! I loved the idea of us putting together our first home... together. More than going through fixtures, furniture and appliance shopping, I loved the discussions we had when going through our many choices. I loved the talks about what we want to do with each room of the condo, how we want things fixed, how we envision living together. I loved it all, so much so that there was a point I remember wishing we had a video cam pointed at us, so I can document the moment and cherish it forever. I can't wait for our home to be done, to be up and running. Then again, just like with the wedding preps, I am so happy that we're having such a great time with the house planning. I am so thankful that we have this stretch of time to enjoy. If there's a honeymoon which is the period after an official union, I wish there was a term to define the period leading up to it. Like a "prequel" of sorts. It deserves a name, because something that makes me so so so over-the-moon happy, much like how I envision our honeymoon will make me, deserves a label to be called by.

Bottom line: I love love love love today, because I love love love love you.

=)

worrywart

Two of my biggest flaws are over-obsessing and pessimism. These two weaknesses definitely take a series of long, hard stabs at me when life presents moments of uncertainty. Add another character flaw of being a control freak and you'll understand the dark clouds that I let overwhelm me sometimes. I hate feeling out of control and I absolutely hate feeling like I've lost footing or I get caught unprepared.

But I know that I need to let go sometimes and have a bit more faith. Faith that things will always find a way to resolve themselves. I need to fully believe that being responsible doesn't equate to being perfect. That I will not be able to foresee everything and prepare for everything. So being taken by surprise sometimes should be allowed and forgiven. I can be harshest and hardest on myself, and I'm not proud of that.

I don't know what the point of this entry is, except I realize that now that I'm about to embark on the next chapter in life known as full-fledged adulthood, I need to at least try to shed off these layers of pessimism and need for control. It's not healthy. It may be impossible to shut off a habit that's 27 years in the making, but for the sake of my future husband, my future children and my sanity, I need to try.

If only there was a self-help book on this. Or a 10-step checklist.

Or hmm... maybe yoga can help me. One of the benefits of yoga is being able to calm oneself down and take the weight of the world off your shoulders. I'll try.

8 months to go!!!

We have 243 days or exactly 8 months to go until our big day!

Accomplishments so far:
1. Church and venue: Check
2. Food: Check, except we have to finalize the menu
3. Guest list: Partial check only. We only know so far that we'll have 60 tables. No exact list yet.
4. Designer: BIG FAT CHECK! More on that later.
5. Photo/Video: Check
6. Emcee: Check. Just need to book a sound systems guy.
7. Strings: Check
8. Cake: No decision yet.
9. Invites: No decision yet.
10. Florist/Stylist: No final decision yet.

I think I'm making good progress. I like the pace I'm on also; no need for bridezilla so far and no need for unnecessary stress. Before the month is over though, I'd like to finalize my color palette, so I can start strategizing the venue decor. Then before Feb is over, I'd like to finalize the entourage designs.

Speaking of dresses, I am so majorly, overly, super in love with my bridal dress design. THIS IS IT! I love love love love it! I can't wait for my wedding day so I can slip on that beauty queen of a dress :) On Friday should be my measurements day and when we discuss the entourage designs.

I'm so happy!

8 months to go before we become Attorney and Mrs! :)

Back to the daily grind... er, early morning class...

This term, I enrolled in 3 MBA classes, one of which falls on a Saturday morning at 8am (Hence, I'm awake at this time and getting ready to leave) all the way in DLSU Taft. Hay.. One of the sacrifices one must make in the name of education and graduating on time. I had the option of cutting back by one class, but I figured the earlier I finish my pending classes, the earlier I can graduate.Plus, I'm getting "set-back" by 1 term this year, which is the term that coincides with my wedding and honeymoon. So, it's only right to take more than the usual load this term, even if it means waking up at an ungodly hour of 6:30 on a Saturday morning. I'm glad though that Dennis is very supportive; in fact, he'll pick me up later at 11am (which is also still early, for a Saturday). But, hey, we gotta put in the work to reap in benefits later...

I just wish it can start at 9 instead of 8.

Hahaha!

No Bridezilla :)

These are the days I'm so thankful I have 1 year to prepare for the wedding. There was an incident today that would've made me stressed out and masungit, but since I have time to spare, I didn't. Just spoke very nicely yet firmly, then went on with my daily business. :)

Just a random thought.

So no need for bridezilla.

For now. Let's not jinx it. Knock on wood.

:p

Decade Review

OK, I'm 27 now which means I was 17 when the decade-that-just-was had just begun. Given that the decade before that, I had just reached the age of reason and hence, school mostly occupied my time, this past decade is the only decade I've lived through worth looking back on and reviewing :p So, with details supplanted by my blog, here goes the Decade Review -

2000 - Halfway through my first year of college. First time to be in a non-Chinese-dominant environment, but happy to have my lifelong friends with me (Lianne and Monica). Met new friends Eks, Gen, Roks, Felix and Gopal. My Chinese friends and I founded the first Fil-Chi org in UA&P, to attempt to put some semblance of control over being in an unfamiliar place where our culture was "cute and interesting" to most of our classmates. How strange. Met Father Soria, my first-ever priest-teacher, who found me just as fascinating as I found him. Faced my first-ever "Who is Jesus Christ, Ms. Co?" question. Fumbled with my answer. Haha! Had to explain to him after class where my ignorance stems from, for fear of being misjudged.

2001 - Mid-way through sophomore year and trying to decide what to major on. Was initially attracted to Economics (eew!) but also intrigued by IMC. A tall, lean, pale dude whom people refer to as Dr K asked me to visit his office because he wanted to "discuss my options in IMC." I first thought, "wow, yabang", but turned out to be convinced when he met with me. EDSA Dos happened and the nation was able to get rid of Erap (for now, hehe). Hung out mostly with Knox, Neil and Elber.

2002 - Started in IMC, and found marketing to be my professional calling. Loved my classes, except some really boring ones taught by professors who were better off retired :p Short relationship with Neil also marked this year.

2003 - Fourth year in IMC- the intensity-filled year. Spent the year mostly sleep-deprived, caffeine-guzzling and in front of a computer, or a printer, or a Prom-B table. Also spent most of my awake time away from my own home and in someone else's, i.e. Gopal's, Elber's, Guia's or Noel's (where the only edible thing for guests was water :p ) Also had a realization that in tight situations where printers conk out, I can take the "flight" (or rather "cry") option instead of fight. Someone takes the fight (i.e. profanity) route though. :p Thought I was going to end up in Unilever for my 5th year, and actually kinda really hoped that I would. Went through Unilever Business Week only to get disappointed in the end due to a technicality.

2004 - Almost done with IMC 5th year, halfway through residency in Citibank. Suffered through 7,000-per-month takehome pay, early Saturday morning classes and awkward stare-downs by my first boss, whom we will hide in the alias "LG". Highlight of the year is spending my residency with FILC, who will turn out to be my three bestest girlfriends in the whole wide world. Also graduated at the top of my class, and visited my best friend in Vancouver for the first time and realized how little there was to do in that city :p

2005 - Began working officially in Citi as program manager of Cards Marketing. Met some of the coolest people ever, who are still my very good friends 'til this day (Van, Ranza, Dang, Karen, Jane, Dane, Eps). Met the love of my life in March 2005, and we got together officially on the 28th of April that year. Life has been extra beautiful from that point on. Dennis finished law school, graduated and took the bar, where he claims 'til this day that he placed #11. (they only publish rankings until #10, hehehe). Made my first appearance in a print ad as a hand model. (Short-lived career though. Hahaha!) FILC went on its first trip- to Boracay! Oh, and I changed jobs. Smart first interviewed me in February, but hired me by December. Long story why. Long wait too. :p Learned yet again that long waits are usually well worth it. First proof was Dennis. Second proof was this job.

My friend, Missy, died after a long bout against ensephalitis. :(

2006 - First full year spent in Smart and another happy year spent with Dennis. Got upgraded to APM level after 6 months in Smart. Went to Cebu with my good friend, Giselle, whose one of the blessings of working in Smart. Also met Loraine, another good friend, in Smart. My best friend's brother got into an accident that left him paralyzed :( Went to Hawaii for the first time, free of charge courtesy of my employer. Took my first business-class JAL flight, which I loved loved loved. Japanese are the best! Got my first-ever salary bonus. I can get used to this :)

2007 - Second full year in Smart, and got promoted to managerial level. Got a car put in my name for the first time. This was also the year of travel for me-- I went all around the Middle East, to London and Asia for work. On the personal trips front, went to Canada again for my cousin's wedding and to Singapore for Ranza. Toured Boston for the first time too and found out I really like college towns. Went to NYC and fell face-first in love with the most vibrant, energy-filled city on the face of the earth. Experienced firsthand the travel nightmares that can befall you when traveling domestically in the US, with the story ending with me sprinting at the Chicago and LA airports and with my luggage arriving one month after I had come home.

2008 - Another year in Smart, another year with Dennis. After some months of pondering in 2007, I finally decided to take the plunge and take on an MBA degree. Met some really cool people in DLSU too. Got offered to be a professor and teach an IMC class- Brand Communications Management. Coincidentally, Dennis also got offered to teach for the first time! Hmm.. what else.. made some big money, and made some big purchases too. Got featured in a magazine for the first time. My friend Karen got preggers while my friend Laurice gave birth!

2009 - Got engaged to the most dedicated, most adorable and most loving man alive. Had my tinghun in the house I grew up in. Was welcomed with open arms into the Chan family. Bought my first ever real estate property. Went on the 2nd FILC trip, this time to Singapore! Went to Bangkok for the 2nd time and turned out to like it so much more than my first trip. Anna and Guia got engaged as well, Gopal got married, and Kayers got preggers! In sad news, Mia had a health scare, and Eggy passed away :(

And so that's the decade that was. Pretty full decade, with so many changes, twists and opportunities. Looking back at some of the older blog entries I had, especially towards the early part of this decade, I find it amazing how things that happened tie together so beautifully. Makes you really believe that another force is at play, not just happenstance or luck. Love also marked this past decade, with Dennis being the highlight of it all.

It's been a really good past 10 years. It may not have been picture-perfect, but few things in life really are anyway. The point is, the good parts definitely kick the behinds of the bad ones, and in fact, most of the bad ones were actually lessons-in-life in disguise, which are actually good. I learned so much in these past ten years and I had a really good ride! I can't wait to go through the next decade with my family, Dennis, and my friends. I'm so thankful! :)

family

I got extra sentimental today about family. My family. How much they mean to me. How much I'll miss them when I get married. How thankful I am to have been born into this family. How much of a role they play into forming my character and my values. How important it is to me to stay as close to them as possible even after I move out. I love my family. If only I can just "add" Dennis into the present family equation and not have to change anything else. I love my family.

holidays merry days! :)

It's been a full week past! Some highlights:
1. Had my tinghun last Saturday! Blissful experience with minor booboos and lots and lots of pictures (that hopefully I get to see very soon!). I didn't think I'd have so much fun following tradition, but given that I'm the only girl in this household, I think it also meant a lot to my family, esp my lola and parents, to have thrown a tinghun for me. I also loved that it was held in the house I grew up in, sort of as a tribute to the place that housed most of my growing-up memories. I also loved getting ready in my room, then moving on to my lola's room since she had more floor space, and eating downstairs on our dining room table. The gifts were also awesome, but more than that, the experience itself is the most precious thing, and the memories it created :)

2. Work is over, at least for the year! We also got a hefty, generous Christmas bonus, for which I am very grateful. Indeed, we had a lot of bad slumps this year, so it was very generous of management to still grant us a generous sum. It would be very helpful next year! :P

3. Christmas! I don't know if it's because I'm engaged, but majority of the gifts I received this year were honeymoon or newlywed related. Hehe. I love every one of them! :) This Christmas is a bit different from years past, because we spent it at the hospital. My lola's still there, but her condition is improving day by day, and hopefully she'll be able to get out before the new year rolls in :)

4. Heard some good news about friends expecting and friends getting engaged. 'Tis the season of blessings, truly! :)

Hopefully the last few days of 2009 keep up the stream of blessings, hope and love, all the way until the new year!

exciting times are coming... :p

One week to go 'til tinghun!

Two work weeks left to go 'til official holiday break!

Two weddings and a baby await us in 2010. (Will it be three weddings? Hmm.. Abangan!)

tinghun countdown!

Ten days to go!!!! :)

thank you

Obviously, my family and I are as far from being American as siomai is, but just because we don't celebrate the actual holiday doesn't mean we can't give thanks :p So, in honor of American Thanksgiving, I loudly proclaim to the universe my ever-flowing gratitude for the following:

~ Attorney Dennis Chan and the blessing he represents in my life, for all of my life
~ My dad, my mom, my lolas and my brothers
~ My lovely friends, all of them, near and far, from all stages and parts of my life
~ My mentors at work
~ My teachers and my students
~ The opportunities that come my way, big or small
~ The sense of safety and security that allow me to sleep well at night and look forward to every morning
~ and most importantly, the "Big Man" up there, known by many names by many people, who's my true benefactor for all the things I'm grateful for.

Thank you.