new money advice

Never heard these before til today, but they ring so true:

"Remember that money's power is not in what you can buy with it now, but in the freedom and choices it can provide you tomorrow."

and

"While it's true that life is only one time, you will have many years to live it. So while you shouldn't fall in love with your money, you should also learn how to save a buck or two for a rainy day. Because rainy days will come, and you won't want to be caught without."

Herve Leger

His signature "bandage" dresses are actually kinda nice.... They're growing on me.... At first, when I saw them on InStyle, I thought, those are weird dresses and must be hard to get in and out of.. now that I see them more and more, they're actually not that bad and are kinda (or rather, really) sexy...

BONUS BONUS BONUS!!!!

Merry ang Christmas!!!!! :D

impending liberation....

One more final exam on Monday and I'm done for the year!!! YEAH!!! 2008 has been such a tiring year, in large part because of this MBA... so at this point, I can only be so short-sighted as to be ecstatic to be study-free for the next 2-3 weeks :p

iffy...

Christmas is just 2.5 weeks away, but I'm barely feeling the holiday spirit. Must be the fact that I have finals coming up, that I have 5 more days of training (intellectual training, not physical exercise, in case you're wondering) to go with a lot of work to do, and "bonus uncertainty" is definitely in the air. Hay.. Maybe I'll feel better (or at least more certain) after the 19th... (the company Christmas party) :p

Hay... I've been "secreting" things (you know.. The Secret) so hard and so much these past few days that I'm thinking maybe the universe is getting sick of me already... hehehehe... So I'll try my best not to overdo it... :p

talk about taking action....

In relation to my previous post, I've decided to take action towards remedying my problem (of not having enough photos with Darling Beau... not much of a "real" problem, if you think about it, but a problem nonetheless :p ), and went on a canvassing trip today with Darling Beau all over the Ayala triumvirate malls, searching and comparing different models, brands and features. And finally, I've decided, after everything, I'm gonna get the Sony Cybershot T77! World's slimmest camera, with 10 mega pixels and 15mb memory! It has a special technology that detects smiles and takes photos accordingly... which I must say will come out pretty handy in the future (think babies whose smiling faces are hard to capture if your hands aren't quick on the clicking).... Hehehehe.. I know, too much into the future... but still.... It helps me justify this purchase. This model also allows editing on-screen and can even detect if the image is blurry (if your hands are shaking) or if a subject blinked (and can even be set to automatically replace the shot with another one without the blinking)... Ain't that neat??!! I love it!

Hopefully I get my hands on my new black T77 within the week. Hope the delivery comes already!!! :D

Oh, on a last note, I decided to get the camera in black, in consideration of Darling Beau's ego. Hahaha!

ting! pochette is done!

My new epi pochette is finally done! Hehehe... I got it about two weeks ago, pre-loved, and since its strap needed some repairing, I left it to be repaired... and I just got a text yesterday that my precious new-to-me bag is finished and ready for pickup! Yay! I'll get it on Saturday! Can't wait :D

pichurs!

I realized tonight that Darling Beau and I do not have a lot of pictures together!! What a shocker! This is brought about by the ff reasons:
1. Both of us are not "ma-picture" kind of people. Nor are our families. So in general, we do not have a lot of pictures that document different parts of our lives. It may sound odd, but that's just how we're (not) wired.
2. We do not travel outside of Manila. This is because both our families do not believe in couples traveling and spending nights together (even innocently!) when they're not yet engaged. Hence, no traveling photos.
3. Neither of us own a camera. This may be a symptom for #1 above, but really, we do not own a camera between the two of us. Sure, our families both have a token camera (which largely remain unused, by the way, for the reason, see #1), but to take photos often, we'll need our own. Which we do not have.

So what to do... I realize if I don't act now, we'll end up with our wedding on-site video being composed of nothing more than a few baby pics, some pics with friends, some pics in Manila, and nothing else. We'll look so boring!

So, should I buy a camera now??!!? I figure this may be a small step towards a state of picture-dom. I can at least document our time together more often... or rather, I'll be equipped to (doesn't mean I'll do it, haha!).. but hey, a small step for mankind but a huge step for not-pala-picture me...

So, what should I do?!

great weekend

I'm so happy I declined the work trip to Macau (or rather, got myself out of it creatively)... this weekend was definitely one of the best... Simple.. we didn't really do anything extraordinary, granted, but it was just full of fun, laughter and love love love! :D

I say this to him a lot, but really, there are just those special moments when my heart feels so much love for him that it just wants to... burst! Hehehe :p He always groans and says why do I have to choose such graphic language, but really, that's how it feels! And I think graphic is better than mushy / gushy :p hehehe...

Happy happy happy :D

early christmas gift!

After a lot of deliberation, I decided to get this bag! Not only is the price such a great steal, considering it's LV and is in good condition, the bag is the perfect thing to bring on nights out and lazy Sunday shopping trips. :p

And perfection tops perfection as Darling Beau offered to fund this purchase so it's gonna be his Christmas gift for me! Win-win situation, believe me, as this relieves him of the task of coming up with a gift for me, which, I don't really know why, proves quite challenging for him.. Am I hard to please?!?! I think not! :p



My new baby! Sure, I couldn't quite take her home yet, as she needed some "repair work" on the straps, but hopefully, in 3 weeks, just in time for holiday party season, she'll be all mine!! :D

Thanks to Tresorie! :)

My Man: Dennis Chan :)

Got this from Kayers :p Here goes...

1. He's sitting in front of the TV: what is on the screen?
Basketball or wrestling or CSI

2. You are out to eat: What kind of dressing does he put on his salad?
Anything. This guy will chow down on anything except for #3 …

3. What is the one food he doesn't like?
Lychees

4. You go out to the bar: what does he order?
Beer beer beer..

5. Where did he go to high school?
Xavier School

6. What size shoe does he wear?
10.5 or 11.. .sometimes 12 for rubber shoes

7. If he were to collect anything, what would it be?
Money. Hahaha!

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
Anything with beef, chicken or ham

9. What would he eat every day if he could?
Dimsum!!

10. What is his favorite cereal?
Quaker oats count??

11. What would he never wear?
Spandex? Hahaha!

12. What is his favorite sports team?
Lakers

13. Who will he vote for?
Obama

14. Who is his best friend?
Me :)

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do?
Nag, hehehe….

16. How many states has he lived in?
one

17. What is his heritage?
Chinese

18. You bake him a cake for his birthday: what kind?
Frozen brazo, his favorite

19. Did he play sports in high school?
Yup.

20. What could he spend hours doing?
Talking to me :) ... oh and playing Xbox :p

Everything by Lifehouse

I love this song--

Find Me Here
Speak To Me
I Want To Feel You
I Need To Hear You

You Are The Light
That's Leading Me
To The Place
Where I Find Peace Again

You Are The Strength
That Keeps Me Walking
You Are The Hope
That Keeps Me Trusting

You Are The Life
To My Soul
You Are My Purpose
You Are Everything

And How Can I
Stand Here With You
And Not Be Moved By You
Would You Tell Me
How Could It Be
Any Better Than This

You Calm The Storms
You Give Me Rest
You Hold Me In Your Hands
You Won't Let Me Fall

You Still My Heart
And You Take My Breath Away
Would You Take Me In
Would You Take Me Deeper Now

And How Can I
Stand Here With You
And Not Be Moved By You
Would You Tell Me
How Could It Be
Any Better Than This

'cause You're All I Want
You Are All I Need
You Are Everything
Everything

early birthday gifts!!!

I got my presents early this year!!!

My parents gave me Tyler tops, my brothers got a checkbook holder and my really good Citi friend gave me this:



I love this book! Well, she knows I love Lucky and she knows I love shopping... so tadaaaa! Yay! And I love the clothes too. Hehehe..... :) Yay! If you can't shop in real life, Lucky really gives you a good alternative. Just flip through fashion-filled pages and feel just as energized!! :D

I really love the gifts, though I must also admit that for some reason, my birthday this year seems a tad less "eventful"... nothing external really caused it.. It's not that something bad happened... It's more internal... like I don't feel much up for celebrating. Must be the less-than-ideal life situations of some of my friends that's going on now, or must be the global crisis, or the stress of work + school + teaching that kinda burned me out recently.... Or maybe a combination of all those things... Well.... Makes me feel less in a cheery mood... Also, for some reason, turning 26 doesn't seem like an "event" to me right now... (shrug)...... Oh well....

Crappy people...

make places crappy too.

I really hate this day...

:(

a few days to go......

before I turn 26! :p

super touched teacher

I ended my first teaching stint today, wrapped up by the students' final presentations on their respective brands. At the end of the class, I sorta gave a short wrap-up talk then dismissed them for the semester for good... when suddenly, the class surprised me with a gift (long story on what the gift is about... Suffice it to say that the gift is a reminder of an important lesson I taught them), saying that they will never forget me and that they had a really great time in my class. Awwww... I really didn't know what to say except thank you. They also asked if I could take a class pic with them, as well as individual pics with each presenting group. So cute! I don't remember ever giving such treatment to any of my previous professors, so I felt really honored to be so... well, honored. Hehehe. It was a nice way of concluding this series of 15 consecutive Saturdays that found me in a college classroom from 9am to 12nn.... :)

Now let's see if I can muster the energy to go through it again next year... but for now, given the great day I had today, I might just be up for it again.... :p Let's see...

singapore...

hmmmmmm......................

Singapore = isa kang malaking possibility.......


EXCITING!

nice dinner last night...

which reminded me that:
1. There's life outside of the place I work in right now
2. There's really no need for unnecessary crap that causes unnecessary stress
3. There are better places and better options out there in the world.

AMEN!

holiday!!!

Spent the whole day vegging out at home.. woke up at 11:30, had a lazy lunch, spent the entire afternoon in bed watching my tv series-- Greek Season 1, Gossip Girl and Privileged... now I'm about to start on the 2nd season of Greek, then on to Project Runway Philippines later at ETC. I love this day! This kinda day does prop up few and far in between, but when it does come around, I just love love love it! I actually thought of correcting the papers for the class I'm teaching, or doing some advance reading for my MBA class, but decided, nah! Today is veg-out, rot-my-brain day, complete with dvds, my computer, my chips and chocolate bars! Yay for holidays! :p

please...

give me some good news.. anything! I hate this feeling of doom, gloom and more doom.... So sad....

I can't wait for the weekend, to purge all these negativity and to refocus my perspective on the blessings I have and the good things I have going on in my life... to be thankful again for what I've been given...

Hay....

save save save save save!!!

My family was discussing the recent financial meltdown in the States, and my dad believes we haven't seen the worst of it.. and despite what the government says, the Philippines will be affected one way or the other.. Hence, he has this edict laid down for us: Save save save save save!

As in, do not buy him Christmas gifts daw. Knowing that his "gift" is sitting safely in our bank accounts, tucked in for a rainy day, is enough satisfaction for him, maybe even more than an actual material gift. Holidays are not supposed to be about material things anyway, he says. People just get carried away...

Oh..

Okay..

Though I may not agree with the moratorium on presents, I do think that my generation seems incapable of saving... I don't know if it's technology that's at fault, or the emergence of credit facilities, consumerism, or just the culture.... but my generation does seem to live for the "now" more than ever before. Unlike our predecessors who's main purpose for toiling is to save, save and save, to forego immediate gratification in the pursuit of a secure, worry-free future. There's definitely some wisdom there.. maybe it just all got lost in translation when passed on to the young..... :p

Watching CNN and BBC feature the US financial system is scary, though... maybe it's what finally does the trick in making me trim down the expense fat... :p

work trip again!

This time to Taipei. Let's see if I enjoy it better than I did Bangkok :p

Rushing everything now, my gosh.. Rushing to finish my presentation for my boss, my packing for tomorrow's 8am flight, rushing my MBA homework.... aaaaahhhh!!! I haven't even started on my lecture for this Saturday.... Too many things on the plate, tsk tsk tsk....

new bag!!!

It may not be the Neverfull I wanted, but it's also a bag I've always liked.. At the risk of sounding like a total LV-holic, I am so so so thrilled to have this bag!



My mom was the one who bought it in HK, after much prodding from my dad. She actually liked a different kind of bag- the Amarente Bellevue-- but my dad told her it doesn't suit her.. So, she went against her gut and got this Alma instead. Though I tend to agree with my dad, I think she should've listened to herself and got what she wanted...

In any case, I'm the lucky beneficiary of the buyer's remorse, so I should just shut up and enjoy the new bag :-)

*P.S. Another work trip coming up! This time to Taiwan... My first time in the land of Republic of China! (The real China is called People's Republic of China, while Taiwan is formally called Republic of China.. Not a lot of non-Chinese people know this.. :p hehehe)

damier neverfull

Mommy, I want one.....!!!!!!!!!!



BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love love love love love love it!!!!!!

PF

It was pretty funny how our office janitor shyly handed me this month's PF magazine yesterday, and I had to stop and wonder why he was doing that.. Then it occurred to me! He's handing it to me to show me.... because it's the issue that included my feature....!!! Nye!!

That was my first reaction. Nye!! Then I thanked him and flipped the magazine over to my section. My second reaction was.... Hahahahahahahaha! I found it so strange to see my image stare back at me, then another image, and another image! Hahahaha! True, I did the photo shoot and interview, and all, but those things never felt real..... but here is the evidence staring at my face! Hahahahahaha!

Showed it to some friends at the office and finally took the copy home to show my family last night. My cutey father said he'll go out today and buy copies for everyone he knows. True enough, he bought himself 10 copies today. Shocker for me on the part where he plans to show it to everybody in his contact list, but a really good, appreciative feeling for his being proud of my little shot at fame. Hahaha! I still can't believe it.. Even Dennis is looking all smitten and proud.. :p

Oh well... in fairness, the feature is actually not bad... The writing was pretty decent, although I think I looked really pale in my photos :p Hehehehe...

new book!

Got this book today, with Darling Hub in tow because he wanted to buy comic books... Told him I didn't really get the allure of comic books, to which he replied, well, I don't quite see the point of that book either... Hehehe... sa bagay....

Presenting--



Based on real accounts, this book chronicles the adventure of one fashionista in the constant pursuit of the famous yet unattainable Hermes Birkin :p Should be a fun fun read :) Hopefully I get to start reading it tomorrow, after I finish grading the marketing papers I assigned to my class... :)

immune shots...

Finally, I completed the 3-installment anti-cervical cancer vaccine shots... Hurts like hell, but at least it's finished :-)

medical exam....

Had my annual physical exam the other day. I'm feeling a little nervous about the breast exams, as the doctor not only reacted with mild concern over my ultrasound results, she also requested that I take a digital mammo and an actual mammogram. I'm scared. I've never even considered the possibility of having something wrong in that area... at this age. I mean, I'm barely 26. It just can't be.

Darling Beau is also in denial, insisting I'm perfectly healthy and it's impossible that they'll find anything. Hay..

I'm tempted to research online about this, but I'm scared of scaring myself to death. So I've decided to just wait for the results to come out and worry about things when they're actually written down on paper for me.

Please pray nothing is wrong.

8/8/08!!!

I came home early tonight to catch the 2008 Olympic opening ceremony in Beijing, China. At 8:08pm, I sat down with my family to watch....

And it was nothing short of amazing!!! I'm so proud, at this very moment, to be Chinese. Many have considered this to be China's coming-out party, and it definitely didn't disappoint. After so many years of seclusion and isolation, China finally came out, and came out with a bang, it did!!! I love it! We even sang the national anthem along with the people watching live... :)

Happy 8/8/08!!!! :)

bkk....

I'm on my third work trip of the year.. this time to Bangkok. I've never been, and I hope it's as good as people make it out to be :p

The only trouble is I've missed my MBA class for the second time so far, because of work trips.. Tsk tsk... Hope this is the last one...

updates!

Haven't updated this blog for the longest time. Been sooooo busy with:

1. MBA: Even if I only have 1 class this sem (in an effort to manage my time better given #2 item below), my economics class is super challenging! As in, it's the toughest class I've had so far in my fledging career as an MBA student, that it's almost like taking a full load.. Hay..

2. Teaching: I started teaching about three weeks ago, and so far, I'm proud to say that it's been going well. Partly because I've had the chance to really sit down and plan my lectures ahead of time. My problem now is that the next few weeks is gonna be quite hectic for me, so I don't know how my next few classes will go. Wish me luck. Hay, and oh, I almost forgot to mention that... it's true what they say about nobody ever becoming rich from teaching :p Hehehe... So, if you're in it for the money, don't even bother, man...

3. Work work work: For some reason, just when my school work started and my teaching load commenced, my work load also started intensifying. Totally unexpectedly! My bosses just started paying intense attention at my business and started demanding more and more of my time and efforts... gosh! :p Though it's a good thing, really, as Dennis keeps reminding me, that at least they keep on appreciating my worth in the organization, it's also incredibly tiring. Plus the fact that I have a work trip this week, which I wanted to avoid and was desperately hoping will be cancelled, in light of #4 below... But, oh well, it's pushing through. So, hello, Bangkok, here I come....

4. Kaye's wedding! Yay! : Kaye's wedding is coming up in 6 days. MY GOSH! It seems only yesterday when we were saying Kaye's wedding was still 1 year and a half away and she has all the time in the world to get it all together... and now, ilang tulog na lang, it's here! Guia is picking up my dress for me since I'll be abroad when it's ready... My plane from BKK arrives on Friday afternoon, which gives me just enough time to fit a nail spa appointment in before a family thing in the evening, and before I'm supposed to take my beauty rest for the early wakeup call on Saturday morning. I'm so excited! :) Beyond excited, actually :p

Boy, time really flies when you're having fun.. or when you're really busy :p hehehe. Before I know it, one of my bestest friends in the planet will be married and get swept off her feet for her honeymoon... then, it's Darling Beau's 29th birthday, then it'll be finals season (for both MBA and my teaching classes.... OH MAN!) and then before I can get a wink in, it'll be my birthday, then Christmas, then 2008 will be over, then 2009 will be here and it'll be my best friend's wedding by May. Woah, time, please stop for a bit! You're going way too fast for me :p

i can't wait!!!!!

Go to www.powerbooks.com.ph to make an online reservation :)

new slippies! :)

Yay! I love it! :D

i can't wait!

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dress in the making...

So, we had our second fitting yesterday for our bridesmaids' dress, to be worn to the First FILC wedding.. I'm so excited, you can totally see how the dress will more or less look... it's so beautiful! I love it! Can't wait to see the finished product :)

wife fund

So, for some strange reason, my mom sat me down tonight to give me a talk about saving more and spending less, as I'm approaching marrying age, and therefore, I need to prioritize increasing my assets... and no, bags and clothes are not "fixed assets" :p

She told me that, while it is true that this is the one time in my life (now that I'm not married yet) where I can spend my money in whatever way I want, without regard for what anyone else thinks, it is also the one time in my life where I can (and should) save my money as much as I can. Once the husband and the kids enter the picture, I will find myself spending at a rate that's so much less controllable than it is now. While I can think of this time in my life as a carefree time where I should enjoy my money, she says it's wiser to think of it as the time in my life where I can accumulate as much wealth.. (aka the wife fund)... as I can, because I will never be able to save as much as I hypothetically can right now. Now that, in her words, kargo ko lang ang sarili ko.

Well, in light of my previous post, that's going to be challenging.

But she's right. I have approached this single life thing all wrong. Instead of appropriating my money in "life-enjoying" manners, I should be saving substantially so as to cushion myself for married life, where costs will inevitably balloon, given the ff reasons:
- I currently do not pay for utilities like electricity and water, which when I get married, would not be the case anymore
- I also currently do not pay for maids, groceries, etc. Again, such won't be applicable in married life
- Should darling beau not able to buy me a home and I refuse to live with his folks, we'll need to rent our first home.. (Though thank God I managed to have a car already for us...)
- Baby = haaaaa?!?!?!?????

There you go. So, now, my wallet will be on a strict diet.

Or at least I'll try...

Good thing darling beau and I managed to land teaching gigs recently. Hopefully they pay a decent amount and hopefully they are not just one-offs, so the money generated can go towards the new save-money plan...

:p

at the rate i'm going, i'll have no savings when i turn middle-aged...

'nuf said..

turn your trash into treasure...

happy 3rd anniversary!

So, I was in Cebu last April 28, which marked the third anniversary of my relationship with Attorney. Good thing he's so understanding, and he didn't give me a hard time about it. We just celebrated on April 26th to make up for the lost time together.

As agreed, we presented each other with our less-than-two-thousand-bucks gifts. I gave him a black leather Fino wallet to replace the dillapidated one he's using, and he gave me---



He gave me the entire trilogy of Twilight, which amounts to roughly 2k! Sakto! Hehehe. So, admittedly, using a criteria of judging by the degree by which the gift reflects the recipient and the happiness level it is expected to bring to the recipient, he is the runaway winner.

However, seeing as how I was such a sore loser, we decided the final decision is a draw and that we split our anniv dinner date. Hahaha! I love this guy! He makes me pag-bigyan even if I don't deserve it. Hahahaha!

Happy Anniversary!

little surprises

I was pleasantly surprised last Saturday when the former dean of my college course, who now serves as Communications Director of the school, invited me to join the faculty as a part-time professor. He offered me to teach 1 block on the subject of Marketing Management. Coolness! I was flattered and surprised, so all I could initially say in response was "Sure!" Then I followed it with a standard line "as long as it's on a Saturday, preferably afternoon", to which he gladly responded, "of course!" He said it's for first sem, so it should start in June, when I'm well on the way through my 2nd sem in my MBA course. My gosh. This year is going to be one busy year!

I'm excited. I've been thinking of the possibility of teaching for quite some time, and I'm happy it will be at my alma mater, and it's about a subject matter so close to my heart and to my everyday job / life. Plus, the added income would be very much welcome, though money is definitely not my main motivation. I am just really excited to teach. :) Hopefully, everything goes well.

Apart from that, this weekend was full of other little surprises, like my darling beau's mom gifting me with really nice pasalubongs from her cruise trip, and my grand-tita who's fresh from overseas just met Dennis for the 1st time, and despite my earlier estimations, she really liked him! As in, two thumbs up si Attorney! Naks! :)

Happy, happy, happy... :)

jetting off...

to Cebu tomorrow... Actually, in about 6 hours nalang, since my flight is at 4am tomorrow :p First business trip of the year... :)

WWE and boys

As soon as we step into the restaurant yesterday to have dinner with my family, my brothers immediately signaled to darling beau to sit next to them. They looked so excited, I found myself intrigued to know what's up. Turns out WWE Wrestlemania is being shown live in Glorietta tomorrow night, and they were inviting Dennis to join them in watching.. Shelling out P320 per person to watch a bunch of sweaty, over-muscled men jump on each other while wearing neon colored tights with paint on their faces.

My darling beau, on the other hand, the ever-so-graceful and dignified attorney, didn't waste a single breath before he agreed whole-heartedly and asked what time he had to be in Glorietta, since he had a full day packed with hearings. Then the three boys proceeded to spend the good first quarter of the dinner chatting and debating over wrestling news and trivia. Hay, boys and wrestling....

Though I have to admit a big part of me was kilig to see how my brothers have embraced Dennis as practically their new older brother. I love it! :)

a good partner

I feel so bad for my friend, who married a good man who is turning out to be not as good a husband. Not that he's abusive or anything like that. He's the perfect gentleman, giving her everything she needs materially and allowing her to relish in the returns of her materially fulfilling job. He indulges her whims and lets her do whatever she likes. At first, I thought things got better when they got married. After all, you're supposed to imbibe those very vows you spoke at the altar, when you promised to give all of yourself to another. Turns out a good wedding doesn't always make a good marriage.

I worry for her. Worry that she walks her path separately from her husband's, which is precisely what marriage is not supposed to be about. I worry that, as much as he does genuinely love her, he isn't capable of giving her what she truly, desperately wants-- a true partner. Someone who's totally devoted to you, someone who actually hurts more than you do whenever the world hurts you, someone who's your biggest fan and your staunchest ally, someone who doesn't only support your dreams but owns them as his own as well, someone who lives and breathes you, someone who's dedicated to live his life to make yours easier, someone who is with you 100%, truly, madly, deeply, someone who will marry you over and over and over...

Because if you don't have that, you don't have a marriage. You don't have a partner. All you have is a ring on your hand and the memory of a grand party. All you have is a roommate, a housemate.. All you have is a sounding board, not a soul mate. All you have is a companion, not a kindred spirit. All you have is a life you settled for, not the life you dreamed about... Happiness shouldn't be something you have to convince yourself you have.

I don't know how to help her..

HK money meltdown

The HK trip proved very costly for me... very costly... hahaha! But I love my purchases. Beautiful beautiful beautiful :)

In fairness to this company, despite all its flaws, it has allowed me to afford all the things I want. So in fairness... pwede na rin... hahahaha!

HK, baby!

Off to HK tomorrow... Can't wait! Need a vacation... BIGTIME!

.. The only thing that bums me out about this is that I'll be leaving Dennis behind. I really can't wait til the day I get to bring him with me everytime I go abroad...

Other than that, I'm excited :) See yah!

i love friendly competition

Attorney's and my 3rd year anniversary is coming up in about a month, and to make gift-giving a little more interesting, we decided to have a little contest. Whoever gives the best gift under 2,000 bucks wins! The loser treats the winner to anniversary dinner at our annual haunt-- Lolo Dad's... :)

Not only have we managed to give the occasion an extra exciting punch, we've also saved each other lots of money by opting to cap the value of our gifts this year. I love it! Total win-win situation :p

Ready, set, lovers, go! :)

a numbed life

Through various discussions today, I realized that there really are some deeply unhappy, deeply unsatisfied people in the world-- people who go through life settling for diluted versions of happiness often found through overdrinking, abuse of substances, materialism and superficial conversations full of air, air and more air. These are people who, whenever they talk about their "happy" lives, attempt to convince themselves more than the ones they're actually speaking with-- convince themselves that the path they have chosen is one they have actively selected and designed for themselves, instead of the empty, pathetic excuse of a life where injuries and insecurities are bandaged haphazardly by alcohol, drugs, money and fluffy talk. They think they have people fooled but really, the fakeness is so, ironically, real. They fail to realize that the relationships they forge are very fake and superficial, because they are not offering their true selves in the relationships and instead keep up this pretense of always showing a happy, content, and often carelessly carefree face. No one in the world has a perfect life. I don't know why these people seem to think they can get away with projecting that they're an exception to that rule. Don't they know that the greatest equalizer in this world is that no one's life is absolutely, completely perfect? It's okay to have flaws, it's okay not to have or be certain things, it's okay to just be yourself.

More than disturbing, it's actually really sad. It's so sad to see people with so much potential and promise fall into a vicious cycle of pretentiousness, just to fit in, just to put on an act and just to feel temporarily better about themselves. Aren't they scared that one day, they look in the mirror and cannot recognize themselves anymore? Aren't they frightened that, at the end of the day, when it truly, truly counts, they do not have people in their lives to depend on? Aren't they terrified that, when stripped of all their lies and deceit, the people they choose to surround themselves with will leave them like a bag of garbage? It's so sad.

Life doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be real.

the best thing with fighting with the one you love...

is making up after.

:-)

twilight!

Most of my Feb 25 holiday was spent in bed, devouring this book--


I love it, I love it, I love it! Once I was knee-deep in the story, I couldn't let the book go without knowing how it ends. Only to find out that the book is part of a trilogy! I have to get my hands on the 2nd book and know what happens in this uncanny, unlikely yet totally believable love story!!

shocker!

Opened my four credit card statements tonight and got my biggest credit-card shock ever! As in! I've never seen bills rake up this high. My god! First time in my life that I spent more than I earned. Tsk tsk tsk. Some remnants of holiday shopping was still there, hence excusable to a certain degree, but I have to admit a lot of things there weren't supposed to be there anymore. Tsk tsk tsk. Should really tighten the purse strings now. Shocker, shocker, shocker!

Another total shocker of the day is when I watched ARA2 this evening and disappointedly discovered that Marc and Rovilson didn't win the race after all. I was sooooo rooting for them, but sadly they lost to the Singaporean boys. It all boiled down to the last roadblock, and unfortunately for the Pinoy boys, they were out-flagged. :( Oh well...

I sure hope to be shocked by good news in the next few days. To counter-act all these rugs being pulled from under me lately... Tsk tsk tsk....

new target acquisition..

While lazily browsing through Greenbelt 4 with Darling Beau last weekend, I chanced upon this beautiful bag... It's not only lighter than the Griet, it's also cheaper and much more versatile. It can be used everyday for work, for school or for play :)

Presenting.. the Monogram Montorguiel---



Isn't it nice? Love it! Finally, a more reasonably priced target acquisition... Now if only I get my bonus already..... :p

love love love love love

In the spirit of window shopping---

Presenting, the new LV Damier Griet.. Beautiful beautiful beautiful bag.. I'm so in love...

happy slip!

Pinoys are really something else. First there was Rex Navarete, and now there's Happy Slip...

Spent a good part of tonight just going through the vlogs at www.happyslip.com. I just love love love Christine Gambito, aka Pinoy internet queen. I love her humor and I love her silly antics. My favorite are the soap operas and "French Fries". Laugh trip, man!

epiphany time!

This week has been a time of realizations.. of epiphanies. I feel like I've been conked in the side of my head and was made to realize that I've been in denial over some things lately. And that I have to learn to accept the added responsibility that came with added perks, and that I now have to learn to develop a higher tolerance level for shit and a thicker outer skin so that I can better serve my new role.

Admittedly, I've been spoiled in lots of ways lately and now is the time to roll up my sleeves and seriously embrace this new role with all that I have. I owe it to my mentors and to myself to give this my best shot. I've been cowering against the added pressure, admittedly, and I've only been relishing the rewards without being prepared to take the accompanying flak. I've realized that to really grow into this new skin of mine and to really flourish in this new environment, I have to suit up as necessary and face things head-on.

I'm maturing. Hahaha!

God's responses...

Darling beau shared something very nice with me this weekend. He told me about this thing he read recently.

When you pray to God for something, He responds only with 1 of the following answers:
1. YES!
2. Not yet.
3. No, I have something better planned for you.

Makes so much sense, and makes you feel better about seemingly unanswered or seemingly belatedly fulfilled prayers. I love it. :)

what's in a name...

I don't agree with some parts. Whatcha think????

What Gladys Jane Means

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life. You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone. Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row. You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace. People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality. You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in. You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising. You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care. You are the total package - suave, sexy, smart, and strong. You have the whole world under your spell, and you can influence almost everyone you know. You don't always resist your urges to crush the weak. Just remember, they don't have as much going for them as you do. You are fair, honest, and logical. You are a natural leader, and people respect you. You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries. You are rational enough to see every part of a problem. You are great at giving other people advice. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

great start...

This is going to be good, I can just feel it in my bones. Just got home from my first MBA class an hour ago and I had such a great time. I was just telling my darling beau how excited I am about this MBA stint. It's going to be a good thing, I just know it.

In other news, just heard today that JT is coming over for sure. In March. Though sponsored by the competition, I'm excited to watch. Also, U2 is under nego to visit Manila too. What great news to kick off the year with :)

resolution

I never make resolutions because they never ever worked for me in the past, but there's always a first time. My 2008 resolutions are:
1. Pray more. And be more thankful.
2. Spend less. Stop spending on unnecessary things. Revisit definition of "necessary". Decide on what's priority and allocate some room for indulges, and STICK TO IT!
3. Work harder and be more forward-thinking.
4. Be more patient. Good things come to those who wait.

Here goes nothing...

big day tomorrow...

Tomorrow officially marks the day when my MBA starts. I have my first class tomorrow evening at 6pm-- Business Law. To commemorate the occasion and to jumpstart a hopefully smooth-sailing MBA career, my dad gave me a leather-bound notebook and Dennis bought me a black and a blue ballpen, to use in my new life as a part-time student. Hehehe. The nerd in me is really excited. Wish me luck! :-)

.....

Not having it because you choose not to have it and not having it because you're not given a choice are definitely two separate matters.

Two very separate matters.

But it really shouldn't matter that much. I should always keep my eyes on the goal. Always have the right perspective on things. What matters is what's at the heart of it all, not the trappings and perks that surround it (or supposed to surround it).

Tsk tsk.

2008, baby!!!!

Thank God the mood changed drastically after Christmas (see depressing post below). Now, I can't even remember what kind of funk all that was about. New Year's rocked!

Since our family isn't Catholic, New Year's celebration tends to be more meaningful than Christmas. In the sense that we have a lot more traditions to uphold on the New Year holiday. For instance, Dec 30 is the staple family reunion date, where all our relatives from all ends of the country come down to our little place in Paranaque to greet my lola happy birthday and to ring in the New Year together. As a result, the house is crammed to the fullest with people sleeping over, crammed to the fullest with food, food and more good food, and crammed to the brim with laughter and chatter. Love it! And my personal favorite is when the clock strikes twelve, my dad and uncle start the "money rain" tradition where coins are tossed from outside into the house, then all over the house... for all of us to pick up (and therefore pick up the good fortune in 2008). And media noche is capped off with a classic Co-family breakfast! Happy New Year!

Darling beau and I were having holiday dinner together at Diamond Hotel and we got to discussing traditions. We decided what traditions we're going to start once we're officially together (if you know what I mean :p ) Even the ones we'll have once we have tots were also discussed. It was such a great topic we talked about it for over 2 hours. Hahaha! We also got to talk about 2007 and how it was such a great year for us both. For me, as I said in the digdipper party, it's really a year of rewards (woohoo, 22 months!) and awakenings. Travel peppered my 2007 from start to finish, and it was also when I concretized my intentions for further studies. It's also the year where I feel I got to know my family the most (lots of stories behind this) and where I feel I got even more comfy in my own skin (again, lots of stories behind this). It's such a great feeling. As 2008 rolls in, I'm so optimistic that an even better year is in store for me. And I thank God more than anything for being so so so so good to me every year of my life.

As for darling beau, this is the year where he made major career realizations and hopefully jumpstarted the one career move that will take him where he wants his lawyering to go. It's also a year of challenges for him and his family, but as I pointed out to him, they still survive and they do it together, and that's something to be grateful for.

I'm excited for 2008. It's gonna be such a rockin' year. Kayers is getting married. Li will be preparing for her wedding. I'll be starting my MBA, and hopefully, more traveling is also in store for me. For darling beau, hopefully, more career wins will go his way, and I pray that he continues to be as optimistic.

2008 is here! :)